Dr Michael Hurd

Dr. Michael Hurd is a psychotherapist, columnist and author of "Bad Therapy, Good Therapy (And How to Tell the Difference)" and "Grow Up America!" Visit his website at: www.DrHurd.com.

Private Lands and Private Businesses Are Not Public Property

Congress and the Bush administration are looking for ways to reverse President Clinton’s barrage of executive orders from his final months of office. The former president, for example, arbitrarily designated millions of acres of private lands as public property,...

Criminal vs. Immoral

Q: What is the difference between what is “immoral” and what is “criminal”? Isn’t something criminal, so long as it’s objectively judged, also immoral? A: If something is rationally judged criminal, then by definition it’s...

Airline Employees Should Be Free To Strike

President Bush has dictated that airline employees may not go on strike for at least two months, and maybe not at all. People like me, who have travel plans next month, should be relieved. Right? Wrong. Why the ingratitude? As much as I want to reach my destination...

The Fallacy of America’s Education “System”

Q: How would you correct the problem of education in this country if you had complete control of the system? A: I would not seek “complete control of the system.” Nor do I — or anyone else (be it George W. Bush, Bill Clinton, the NEA, or whomever)...

Technology vs. Humanity

read a bumpersticker today which said: “It has become appallingly clear that our technology has surpassed our humanity.” This expression misses a crucial point. Our technology is in fact a consequence of our humanity. Technology comes about only because of...

America’s Real Constitutional Crisis

Many say that the recent presidential election debacle verged on a constitutional crisis. Looking back at last year’s events, let’s apply some perspective. Take a moment and examine what the real crisis is. Americans are forced to pay for an ever-expanding...

The “Control Freak” Package Deal

You often hear the phrase “control freak” used in a negative sense. I have even used it myself to describe authoritarian personalities. Authoritarian personalities are people who place a desire to be “right” (that is, seen as right) above the...

America’s Surplus Crisis

The federal surplus for the close of fiscal year 2000 was nearly double the surplus for the prior year. This is a problem! A massive, growing federal surplus is a signal that the government is taking too much of our money. Back in the days of the federal deficit, we...

Environmentalism: It’s not about the pretty little animals

Environmentalism: It’s not about the pretty little animals

Environmentalists are now taking their “case” to the streets. They are burning down buildings on Long Island because they feel suburban sprawl has gone too far. It’s time that we stop calling such people “environmentalists.” This is too...

When You Should–and Should Not–Help Others

Ayn Rand, the author of Atlas Shrugged wrote, “When people need help, the best of them (those who need it through no fault of their own) often prefer to starve rather than accept assistance — while the worst of them (the professional parasites) run riot...

Spontaneity versus Whim Worship

Spontaneity versus Whim Worship

What’s the fundamental difference between being a whim worshiper and being spontaneous? A whim worshipper acts on whatever urges move him, at the moment they first move him. He does not stop and use reason to evaluate what he’s doing. A spontaneous person...

The Myth of “Emotional Intelligence”

Q: There’s a new corporate term in use lately — “emotional intelligence.” People are even being tested for their “emotional intelligence” levels. Is there any value in this? A: The very concept of “emotional...

Men Are Not From Mars and Women Are Not From Venus

Q: I observe much “male-bashing” in today’s America, and I also observe that it has become widely acceptable. (The “Lifetime” channel on cable TV provides one poignant example of this). I don’t mean the usual, superficial...

Conspiracy Theories

Conspiracy Theories

Q: What are your thoughts on assertions of a conspiracy by Republicans to steal the presidential election — made by Democrats and the mainstream media? It seems “conspiracy theories” abound today, by both the left and the right. What’s at the...

How to Find Your Hero or Heroine

How to Find Your Hero or Heroine

With persistence, people almost always find the romantic partner they want. This is one of the surprising things I’ve learned from years of being a therapist. I spend countless hours talking with lonely people who wonder if they will ever find the romantic...

True Love Demands No Sacrifices

Never ask your spouse or partner to make a sacrifice for you. If you really love someone, then you don’t wish to control them. It’s not that you merely won’t ask them to do something they don’t want to do. We’re not just talking about...

Divorce is not the real issue that harms kids psychologically

Divorce is not the real issue that harms kids psychologically

Some interesting new research suggests that it’s not divorce itself which harms kids psychologically; rather, it’s the way parents interact with each other that affects children the most. This finding is totally consistent with my years of experience as a...

Politically Funded Education Enshrines Mediocrity

Politically Funded Education Enshrines Mediocrity

A new poll claims that a large majority of American parents are very happy with their child’s public school. This is certainly not my experience. I am a family therapist in Montgomery County, Maryland — the location of one of the “best” public...

Unlike Gore, Ralph Nader is the Real Thing

In recent years, the Democratic Party has moved to the right. In most respects this has been phony P.R., of course, such as Clinton’s proclamation that “The Era of Big Government Is Over” — with his actions (from the Hillary health plan of 1994...

Judge Joseph Lieberman by his Ideas, Not His Religion and Race

Why is race such an issue to people? Or is it mainly an issue for members of the media? When I first heard that the Democratic vice-presidential nominee would be Joseph Lieberman, I did not think at all about his race or religion. My mind immediately went to his ideas...

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