Moonie, my neighbor’s cat, sits predictably outside my front door every morning at
One day last week, Moonie ate most of his ritual morning delicacies. I then went clothes shopping, taking my uncle and dad. The Lebanese store manager, Walid, waited on us and told a harrowing tale of how he came to
Syrian authorities routinely patrol
Moments after hearing the salesman’s story, I ran into another shopper. Recognizing me from television and radio, the shopper said, “We probably won’t like each other. I’m a committed radical socialist.” Now understand the scene. This clothing store touts its high quality at reasonable prices. Tell me, does my “radical socialist” understand that the American system of capitalism, competition and free enterprise enable her to shop at this store where she, like my father, my uncle and me, sought reasonably priced quality?
Did some bureaucrat at the Department of Labor or Commerce use command-and-control edicts to compel this hard-working Lebanese immigrant to improve himself? If the shopper drove to the store, she benefited from free-market competition between automakers. She used fuel resulting from the competition between oil discoverers, producers, refiners and retailers. And, frankly, given her ample girth, she did not appear to miss too many meals in
Some contrast. The appreciation for
This country allowed my father, a child of the Depression who never knew his biological father, to overcome Southern racism through pride, hard work and focus. My entrepreneurial-minded dad applied for a taxi license in a Southern court but was denied by the judge, who referred to my father as “a nigger.”
Dad became a Marine in World War II, stationed as a cook on
My father applied the same attitude he later taught my brothers and me and said, “What can I do about it?” He then relocated to
He went to an unemployment office, taking the first job that presented itself — that of a janitor. He worked that job for nearly 12 years, taking a second full-time janitor position elsewhere. He also went to night school three nights a week to get his G.E.D. He managed all this with a stay-at-home wife while raising three boys, finally saving enough to open his own cafe. Unlike our “radical socialist,” he never complained about America’s inequality, lack of opportunity or roadblocks placed in the paths of less-advantaged people.
Work hard, get an education, learn a trade, and don’t make bad moral mistakes, he always told us. Don’t blame others, and “the sky is wide open” if one only sees the opportunities.
Some, however, like the “radical socialist” shopper — and my neighbor’s cat, Moonie — seem oblivious to the comfort, freedom and abundance that flow from America’s historically unparalleled opportunities. At least Moonie, however, in an occasional display of affection, will from time to time rub against my leg in appreciation.